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Fostering spotlight:
David and Jessica<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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Not everybody celebrates their special day with the arrival of three children, but that\u2019s what happened to our foster carer and \u2018birthday boy\u2019, David and his wife, Jessica.<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Back in March 2022, David enjoyed his birthday cake with pre-teen and teen siblings, two girls and a boy, who were his and Jessica\u2019s first foster children, staying for five months.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For most of the time since then, the couple have been caring for three under-10s brothers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

With no children of their own, David and Jessica decided to start fostering to help children who didn\u2019t have a \u201cstable home and positive family experiences\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After being approached by approximately 50 organisations initially, the husband-and-wife team eventually chose the Together Trust as the agency they would like to foster with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThe trust was very responsive during the whole process\u201d, said David. \u201cThere was always someone you could speak to on the phone. It felt more like a family, and we wanted to be with an organisation reasonably local to us.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although their fostering experiences have, at times, been \u201cchallenging\u201d, David and Jessica both see the benefits. Jessica, who has worked with nursery age children, reflects that the boys living with them have \u201cchanged a lot\u201d since they arrived and are \u201cnow very settled\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Good ongoing support and training from the Together Trust has helped the couple flourish in their fostering roles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Friendships have been made with other foster carers and children on the two annual trust-organised short breaks the family have attended. \u201cThe boys made good friends and there were tears on the last day\u201d says Jessica.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

David\u2019s advice about choosing a fostering agency is to \u2018go with the one you feel most comfortable with\u201d, while Jessica adds \u201cgo with your heart\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In fact, they\u2019ve already recommended the Together Trust, giving a big thumbs-up to the sales assistant who helped them with their sofa purchase!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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With Foster Together, we\u2019ve worked hard to build a connected fostering family where staff, carers and families can support each other. In fact, our level of training, support and friendly community mean some of our foster carers have been with us for over 20 years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Learn more about fostering below or make an enquiry and kickstart your fostering journey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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